Little Victories

When you live with autism, the small victories are the biggest triumphs

In a world that often celebrates the big milestones — graduations, promotions, weddings — it’s easy to forget that some of life’s greatest triumphs are found in the little moments. For families raising children with autism, these small victories carry a weight of joy that words can barely describe.

The First Glance

For many families, the very first time a child makes eye contact feels like a miracle. What others may take for granted — a simple meeting of the eyes — is often the result of weeks, months, or even years of patience, therapy, and hope. That moment becomes more than just a glance; it is a doorway to connection.

A Single Word, A Whole World

Speech can be another milestone that redefines everything. A child saying “mama” or “dada” for the first time may sound ordinary to many, but for parents of a child with autism, it can feel like an entire world opening up. It is not just a word — it’s a bridge, a connection, and a reminder that progress, however small, is still progress.

Joy in Everyday Achievements

Little victories aren’t always about speech or eye contact. Sometimes they appear in the form of a smile on a hard day, a child trying a new food, or even sitting calmly through a routine that once felt impossible. These everyday achievements might seem small to the outside world, but to families, they are worth celebrating with the same joy as any grand milestone.

Why These Victories Matter

These moments matter because they are proof of growth, resilience, and love. They remind families to celebrate the journey, not just the destination. Each small step is a testimony to the strength of the child, the perseverance of the family, and the faith that tomorrow holds more reasons to celebrate.

“Do not despise these small beginnings, for the Lord rejoices to see the work begin.” – Zechariah 4:10

A Reminder for Us All

For families living with autism, little victories are never little. They are monumental, sacred, and worth celebrating. And perhaps that is a lesson for all of us — to slow down, notice the everyday miracles, and remember that progress, no matter how small, is still progress.